Frustrated with rejection at the top? Wondering whos greasing whose palm to get access to the million-dollar decision-makers? Working at convincing yourself that the CEO/President isnt really THE Top Dog for your particular product/service?

All youve gotta do to change this frustration and rejection to outrageous success is this: Learn to think like a girl.

Youll be relieved to know that sell like a girl isnt going to require you he-men to sound fem on the phone or you she-women to sound sultry or whiny. It does mean that youve got to think differently than youve been thinking about approaching the upper echelon.

Surf the net, read the articles about sales and they reek of testosteronepower, speed, obscene sums of money begging to get into your pockets, get to the decision-maker at all costs. Overall theres not one thing wrong with testosteroneafter all its half of what makes the world go round.

However, testosterone will get in the way when youre dealing with the number one person you need to know to get to the Top Dog decision makers. Yep, Im talkin about the gatekeeper.

Oh, I know there are lots of connections made on the golf courses but no one comes near the success rates of those who know how to treat the gatekeeper on the other end of the line. Listen up now, Im givin you an insiders secret from the Ladies Powder Room Sales Professionals of America, you be nice to the Executive Assistant and shell be nice to you.

Dont you dare write this off as too simple, resist the temptation to think, kick it up a notch, this isnt how the big deals are made. Because the results of heeding this counsel will make your head spin. Like appointments with $1.3 Billion dollar decision makers, meetings with executives who prior to using this method had been unreachable for more than 20 years, sales cycles shortened from 6 months to 2 weeks and the accolades go on and on.

So what do the folks whove learned to Sell Like A Girl know that you dont know? This is itthe single most important person you need to know to get scheduled on the Executives calendar for a sales call is more likely than not, a girlactually a professional executive assistant who is female.

What does she want? To introduce her executive to the sales professionals that are savvy to the ways business is done at the top.

Why is she interested in that kind of relationship? Because her boss, the executive, has included her in his or her directive to seek out new ideas to help the boss take the company where no man has gone before! The Top Dog is eager to hear about new ideas thatll reduce expenses, increase revenues and keep his company ahead of the other guy. Her boss wants to meet a sales pro like youbecause you have a lot to offer.

Now that you know the secret key, beware of getting your tail caught in the closed gate because of your approach.

When testosterone meets estrogen, its a different experience than when testosterone meets testosterone. Or when testosterone wannabees (how a lot of women have learned to behave in business) meet the gatekeeper.

The executive assistant uses the language of business, shes bottom line, brief in use of words, deliberate in her focusand she appreciates being treated by you as the second most powerful person in the organization.

Give her the information she needs and is looking for to communicate to the executive. That is simply your name, your phone number, and whats in it for the exec if he does business with you.

And be polite. Tell her you appreciate her and thank her.

True, she isnt the decision makerbut she is the single most important key to getting to the decision maker. Learn how to think like a girl and your calendar will be packed with executive level sales calls. Your other option? Continue to bang your head against a solidly locked door. Come on, give it a try, you dont have to tell a soul just sell like a girl.

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