How wonderful it would be if we can read the mind of our partner or even anyone whom we are attracted to. We would know what he or she likes, whether he or she is in love with me or simply whether he or she is cheating on you!

Although I do believe that there a psychics who can really mind read, I also understand that it may be a God given gift and may not easily be modelled or learnt. So well what can we do? Cry and wallow into self-pity because of a lack in skills?

NO WAY!

I attended a course call Patterns of Excellence which encompassed the essentials of NLP. One part of the program included this thing called language pattern of "Mind Reading". This is really cool I thought! This trainer taught that the tools could also be used to seduce someone! This is way too cool.

In NLP, mind reading is simply using phrases to embed a suggestion into someone else's mind to make the person more receptive and comfortable to what you propose. For example, when out on a date, you can say this to build rapport and play the lead role of the date:

"Did you know that XXX Restaurant serves the freshest oysters? You want to go there for dinner?"

Your date will be amazed at how well you understand him or her and you know he or she will be in agreement. And the rest of the journey is made easier.

Have fun testing it out!